The Bible emphasizes a unique word in describing relationship agreements: COVENANT. It’s the word God uses to capture His relationship with Noah, with Abraham, with Moses, with David, and ultimately with all who are in Christ - the recipients of “the new covenant,” (Jeremiah 31). But since “covenant” has gone out of fashion in common vocabulary, many search for other words to use in its place. We may be tempted to use the analogy of a contract to understand a covenant. I have used this word myself in preaching about covenant before. They both involve agreements and commitments. However, the biblical concept of covenant emerges as much stronger than the conditions of a contract.Read More
Conflict is inevitable. If you never disagree with someone, then you don't know each other well enough. You don't have a real relationship. But the quarreling (or fighting) often associated with conflict can be prevented. If you want to map out a river, you need to locate all the headwaters. So if you want to map out the whole process of conflict quarrels, let's allow the inspired writer James to point us to the headwaters where we might be able to redirect the streams before they all flow together...Read More
"My current marriage is not what I want it to be." "We seem to be growing apart" "I want a new marriage!"
We have all heard these words--television, friends, family, maybe ourselves. Let's look at how to have a "new marriage". In order to have a "new marriage" we need to do a few things:Read More